A wife of noble character, who can find? Proverbs 31:10
Newton On Catching A Good Wife
July 7, 2008
Sound advice from John Newton
John Newton, in a letter dated July 15, 1777, refers to a common friend who he says "is in town, very busy about that precious piece of furniture called a wife." And since he's on the topic of marriage, Newton muses about the most important decision of who to marry.
"In Captain Cook's voyage to the South Sea, some fish were caught which looked as well as others, but those who ate of them were poisoned; alas; for the poor man who catches a poisonous wife! There are such to be met with in the matrimonial seas who look passing well to the eye, but a connection with them proves baneful to domestic peace and hurtful to the life of grace. i know two or three people, perhaps a few more, who have great reason to be thankful to Him who sent the fish with the money in its mouth to Peter's hook. He secretly instructed and guided us where to angle; and if we have caught prizes, we owe it not to our own skill, much less to our deserts, but to His goodness."